New Skill and Confrontation

 Start learning a new skill then soon after the completion, you should take the examination and confront the new challenge in the market. It seems that everyone is doing so, but in fact, very few people are doing so with proper planning. 

Since our childhood, we want to do a great job in our future but unfortunately, we can do, some can be successful if their parents help and support their children according to their wish, passion, and goals. The rest of the children are not doing what they were wishing in their childhood because of several reasons. 

The first main reason is some children want to be teachers but their parents are opposing their passion, their parents want to see their children as a doctor or an engineer. This situation becomes very complex for the children. They cannot decide properly. Meanwhile, the children cannot search for other best professions. Sometimes they want to follow their parent's wish but their ego and conscience reject the parent's wish time and again. The children are feeling bad, their emotions destroy. Various pressures are captivating the children in this condition. Such as the pressure on behalf of parents, friends pressure, social pressure, and above all else their own ego. As a result, children are not doing well in their life. 

Parents are playing a pivotal role in their children's careers. What their children want to do? The parents should observe their children. The help and support of both father and mother can change their children's minds. I met with a number of students so far and I realize that a great number of students are moving forward without any plan and understanding. Maximum are following trends. Meanwhile, I realized that their parents are not also taking interest in their children's wishes. Is there any benefit for their children or not? Even then parents do not know. It is the responsibility of the parents that what time their children must learn which skill? What time they should participate in curricular and extracurricular activities? all these activities should know the parents. Otherwise, the children could waste their precious time in different and unfruitful activities. Although, they could learn much more from their different activities and they could use that information in their careers but the most important and easy way to learn a new skill should be according to your future planning. First, you should learn such skills which are the most relevant to your passion and future planning then such activities would lead to your passion and they would provide more opportunities in your future. 

Now, parents and students would come to know that skill development is very important to develop our lives. Parents should take heed of traditional education as well as the skill development of their children timely. For example, a student of grade 8, wants to be a software engineer, and this is his/her passion, and the parents also agree with the passion of their child then they should help and support their child to find out sincere teachers and mentors along with they should help to learn new software-relevant skills. Such skills will not make your child an expert but they would give confidence, information, ideas, and imagination with the passage of time. Such a skill will develop the mind of the child to be a software engineer. Always there exist exceptions but most probably your child will become an expert of software in his/her career. This is an example, now you can understand and apply this example in various fields. 

It is a common habit of students or trainees that during their studies or after studies they are taking different skill development courses and before completion or soon after completion of the course they just quit the course and they are not implementing it in their careers. Consequently, such courses, later on, become useless. Students start rumoring that such courses have no value, just time-wasting, while this concept is totally wrong. Such courses would build your career if you would learn a relevant skill that should be pertaining to your passion, and if you would learn the concept of confrontation.

 Before starting your skill development you should think about the skill whether it is relevant to your passion or not then start learning the skill. You should know that at the initial stage everything seems very difficult and reluctant. If you have made a plan to learn a new skill according to your passion and education then you would feel enjoyable and you would learn more. When you complete your first skill relevant to your future ambition then you should take a test and get a certificate then you should start learning the advanced level course. Start teaching what you have learned in the first course. It is not necessary to become an expert and then start teaching, instead of this concept you should help your same-minded friends in learning the new skill. Try your best to update your new skill by helping your friends and juniors. Do not think that yous should learn completely then you will start teaching. Just confront the situation it will help you building confidence and decision making in your future.