Construct a library in your mind!

Children need moral, material, and financial support to get to their destinations. Including moral, material, financial support, making a library in the parent's mind, children's mind and at your home plays a vital role in self-development of yourself and your child.  Many literate parents are thinking about this method consciously and unconsciously. This method has promoted and made brilliant, imaginative, intelligent, and knowledgeable students.

The human mind needs to control because it works non-stop 42/7. It plays just like a monkey, which means it generates uncountable thoughts every day. Generating different thoughts shows that your mind is perfect it works better but you need to control it. You should have the break of your mind. If you let it generate different thoughts it will continuously generate and you will be confused that what you should do with these thoughts? Consequently, it is very important to control your mind according to your will. How you could control your mind? A big question has aroused. Even we cannot control our minds how it is possible to control children's minds? 

To control your mind you need to make such an environment in your mind, at your home, and even then everywhere you want to live which could attract your mind towards itself. It is very simple but we are not diverting our mind towards such an environment. We are working according to our thoughts generated by our minds. And you know better, that our mind generates several thoughts, so we cannot focus on important ones. When we cannot focus on our thoughts then we cannot guide our children as well. This is the reason that why some are wasting their precious time? And why some are utilizing their precious time and get success? 

Those people who are not controlling their thoughts, they need more time to get success and achieve their goals. Such people are following trends and their random thoughts. They are trying to find their success in others' success. They want to follow other people, hoping that they could succeed by following them. They are not taking heed of their thoughts, they cannot control their thoughts. The question is why they cannot control their thoughts as some other people do? The reason is that such people are not thinking about their environment of their home for a long time. Although they are constructing nice buildings, they are not thinking about a study room for their children, they are not thinking about the library at home for their children, and they are not creating a study and thinking environment at their homes. Instead of such an environment, they are discussing people, other people's homes and their environments, their way of livings, their weaknesses, their strengths, and their sources of income. In this way, they could not provide a fruitful environment for themselves and their children. As a result, they cannot succeed in their lives and their children need to do hard work for their livings in their lives. Such parents and their children are not constructing a relevant library in their minds.

Those people who are successful in their lives are making a relevant library in their minds. Such libraries are helping the parents to read new books, help them get new information, help them stay at home and help their children, help them the career counseling, and help them guide their children in the right way at the right time. Before the construction of their material home, the intellectual parents are constructing their home in their mind because they are not using their home for staying in but they are using their home as an institution, a school, a college, and a university. Therefore they are constructing such a home that could play as an institution, a school, a college, and a university in near future. Having constructing such a building in their minds then they are applying this idea in the material world. They have a vision that leads them in the right way, such a great vision of parents helps their children to understand themselves. In their mind library, they collect research, advanced study books, ideas, general knowledge, and their sources such as the internet, search engines, and book references. In this way they are also constructing a wonderful library at their homes, they are providing internet facility, they are teaching their children how to use the internet. With their children, they are also using their home library. Instead of giving orders to their children, the parents are demonstrating because they know that "actions speak louder than words", so their children are acting like their parents. 

All those parents who are illiterate but they are thinking critically can help their children by giving them a mind library although they could not provide a furnished material library, they can help to build a well-furnished mind library. This is the reason that some of the children who belong to poor families can grow well and succeed in their lives and some children having everything but they could not succeed in their lives because their parents are not helping them to build a well-furnished mind library although they are constructing a well-furnished material library. This shows that constructing a mind library is more helpful than a well-furnished material library.