Give importance to your mentors (Parents)

 Listen and take advice from your inspirational personalities but before taking the final decision you should discuss with your mentors (Your most experienced and the most sincere mentors are your parents). Discuss with them your ideas and decisions then you will get precious answers from them, think upon them, and then take a wonderful decision.

In our lives, we have to face certain problems, major decisions, turning points, and life-changing thoughts. Meanwhile, it is very difficult to make the right decision within a short time. In this scenario, never take the final decision because in such situations human mind has to face multiple tasks to take a decision. There would be certain situations where you need to take your own final decision such as you have got an injury and abruptly you need to go to hospital then at that time you have to get the first ad then you would decide that in which hospital youa need to go for further treatment. In this way there would be some situation where you do not need to take the abrupt decision, you need to discuss with your teachers, advisors, or mentors. Sucha as you need to start a business and you have your own money just you need to invest, someone is giving you an offer to start the business but you do not know the knowledge about your business, meanwhile, you do not need to take the risk. You have discussed with that person who has offered you the business that's fine but later you need to take advice from your advisor and most importantly from your mentor. What your mentor advises you about the business and how much you are understanding that business? Then you should start your business and most probably you would get success. This method you need to apply in other decisions.

In this way, it is very important for teenagers to consult their advisers and their mentors to move on the right path. Teenage is a very crucial age for both girls and boys. At this age, you need to take some major decisions such as your career, your marriage, your skills, your choice of university, etc. In all these situations you must consult your advisors and your mentors.

The decision made in your teenage changes your entire life! Parents play a vital role in the self-development of their children. During teenage children do not know about their career, what kind of skill they should learn? which subject they should choose? They do not have much experience pertaining to their upcoming situations. They do not know who is the sincere counselor? Who knows better about the skills? And who can understand your emotions and your desires? On contrary to your children's experience you have huge experience of life! You are the most important and the most sincere teacher, advisor, and mentor for your children. 

You need to understand your child's desire, attitudes, characteristics, interests, and in what kind of work your child is doing interestingly? You need to understand these situations first. Directory never emphasizes on your child to do this and that or what you want to do? or what you want to see your child in future? You should work out according to your child's desire. You know much better about the teachers, advisors, and mentors than your child so you need to discuss your child with teachers, advisors, and mentors then you have to conduct a meeting between your children and the teachers, advisors, and mentors. You need to just give your children awareness about different professions and careers by means of direct conversations, through print media, electronic media, social media, career counseling, seminars, and workshops. You need to help your child at any cost then your child will become an informative and brilliant student. When you would get involved with your child in these activities your children's minds will be focused upon their desires and how they could achieve their desires? Otherwise, several students in their teenagers are not interested in their careers, desires, and counseling. They are wasting their precious time in their extra-curricular activities, wants, on social media, in video games, watching movies, sports,  and in other useless gossips. 

To keep them away from such activities you need to follow them in every situation, you need to share your thoughts regarding your and their future, you need to discuss with innovative ideas, you need to discuss with them careers, professions, business ideas, educational activities, you should help your children to join seminars, workshops, motivational lectures, career counseling, and meeting with sincere teachers, advisors, and mentors. You need to plan before your child's birth that how you can help him/her? You need to construct several ways for your children and try your best to make them understand according to their burning desire. Everything exists in us jus we need to help them in discovering their talents.