True guidance is more important than money

 It has been observed that for the betterment and development of an individual life, true guidance is more important than money. If you would spend money on your child without guidance he could not develop himself but instead of spending money if you would guide your child in the right way then he could develop his life easily.

During the studies of your child, you should guide him regarding the life story of a person. You need to tell him and guide him every day, regarding his career. If you are spending a lot of money without guiding him then you are not helping your child in the right way because money can solve the materialistic problems but it could not solve the problems regarding personal development or self-development. 

Along with the money you need to show the best ways of life by sharing the success stories with your child. Such success stories will inspire your child and compel your child to become a responsible person, a hardworking student, and an imaginative child. If you are facilitating your child with everything and you are giving him money without investigation then do not expect success from your child but you are going against your child. 

You should facilitate your child with mobile, laptop, van, etc but you should ask the questions regarding all those things which you have given to your child, such as for what purpose he is using them? Is he use them for the betterment of his career? What kind of friends is he living with? What is his monthly progress? Step by step you should ask the questions and you should give him satisfactory answers. In this way, you can help your child. Share your innovative and great thoughts with him and listen to him carefully to what he wants to say and what are his views. 

You have spent a long period of life and you have faced several problems, ups, and downs, and you have got a long experience of your life. So, all your wisdom you need to utilize for the betterment of yourself and for the betterment of your children. Sometimes your child is using money in wrong ways meanwhile you should avoid your child from spending the money in such ways, never excuse, because your child has taken the first step towards wrong way. In that situation, you need to conduct a meeting with your child and you need to make them understand the condition of the world he has done. You need to explain each and everything operating to the wrong deeds. 

In this way, you can guide your child. If you would treat him as a friend then you can help him more and you can guide him in the right way. Otherwise, someone will become his friend and he would guide in the wrong way.